I serve as an unremunerated non-executive on the board of an NGO and, returning from a recent project visit, had an erotic adventure with an attractive younger project manager. He does not report to the board so there are no legal obstacles to an affair. As we both have families, we intend to be discreet. Inconveniently, however, the NGO’s director just quit and my intended lover plans to apply for the job. For the gender balance, the board wants me on the selection panel. Are there alternatives to not being on the panel or not pursuing the affair?
我是一家非政府組織中不領取報酬的非執行董事，最近剛考察完一個項目回來。我與一位頗有魅力的年輕項目經理有了“性愛冒險”。他不用向董事會報告，因此這種關系不存在任何法律障礙。由于我們兩人都已成家，所以我們打算謹慎行事。然而不湊巧的是，這家非政府組織的董事剛剛離職，我的這位準情人打算申請該職位。出于性別比例方面的考慮，董事會想要我進入選拔委員會。除了不進入選拔委員會或不發展婚外情以外，我還有其它辦法嗎？