I am a partner in a City law firm and lucky (wise?) to have married a man who gave up his career to stay home with our two young children. He is happy and so are the children. However, I am increasingly irritated that I get home in the evening exhausted to find them all slumped on the sofa watching television, homework often undone and the kids not yet bathed. I usually end up doing it myself. I’m doing a rotten job of managing and motivating my husband. How to do it better?
我是倫敦金融城一家律所的合伙人,我很幸運地(或者說很明智地?)嫁給了一位愿意放棄工作、專門在家照看兩個年幼孩子的男人。他和孩子們對此都感到很開心。然而,令我越來越受不了的是,每天晚上當我筋疲力盡回到家的時候,總是發現他們都窩在沙發上看電視,功課總是一點也沒做,孩子們也沒洗澡。結果總是我自己動手做這些事。我在管理和激勵我的丈夫方面做得太糟糕了。怎樣才能做得好點?